Finding Balance: Letting Go of Perfectionism and Control in Your Work-from-Home Journey

Are you feeling overwhelmed and struggling to find the perfect work-life balance as a work-from-home mom?

Do you find yourself constantly striving for perfection and trying to control every aspect of your life and work?

You're not alone. Many women face similar challenges in the fast-paced world of remote work. But fear not, because there is hope.

This article is based on my interview with Vivian Cumins. Vivian is a writer, speaker, and podcast host who grew up in a small town in Oklahoma. She is also a career professional, a military spouse, a step-mom to two adult kids, and a “Glammy” to five grandkids.

Vivian shares with us how you can achieve a greater work-from-home life-work balance by eliminating perfectionism and control, and instead, learning to trust in God's plan for your life. We'll explore practical strategies and mindset shifts that will empower you to let go of unrealistic expectations and embrace a more balanced and fulfilling lifestyle.

Imagine waking up each morning by starting your day with the Lord and seeking him to guide you as you confidently navigate your work tasks and household responsibilities while focusing on your faith and family. By implementing the strategies discussed in this episode, you can turn this vision into a reality.

Balancing Work and Life: A Journey of Perseverance, Faith, and Renewal

In today's fast-paced world, finding a balance between work and personal life can often feel like an elusive goal. Yet, it's a journey many of us embark on, seeking to navigate the complexities of career advancement, family commitments, and personal fulfillment. In this article, Vivian shares her inspiring journey of her experiences, struggles, and triumphs in finding balance amidst life's challenges.

From Striving for Perfection to Finding Purpose

Vivian's career journey is one marked by determination, hard work, and self-discovery. Beginning her federal career in Germany in 1997, Vivian started as an HR assistant and steadily climbed the ranks through dedication and perseverance. However, beneath her outward success lay a deeper struggle with perfectionism and anxiety, rooted in childhood experiences and a relentless drive for achievement.

As Vivian recounts her journey, she reflects on the pivotal moments that led her to confront her perfectionist tendencies and seek a more balanced approach to life. It wasn't until a wilderness season of self-reflection, spiritual renewal, and facing health challenges, including a cancer diagnosis, that Vivian began to truly understand the importance of aligning her life with God's purpose. Through prayer and self-reflection, Vivian found the courage to let go of her need for control and embrace a path of trust, faith, and self-compassion.

Finding Balance Amidst Work and Home Life

Central to Vivian's journey is the theme of balancing work and home life—a challenge many can relate to in today's remote work environment. As she navigates the transition to full-time remote work, Vivian shares her insights on maintaining connection, combating isolation, and prioritizing self-care. From establishing a morning routine of prayer and Bible Reading to setting boundaries and intentionally seeking social connection, Vivian offers practical tips for maintaining balance and avoiding burnout in a virtual work environment.

Embracing New Projects and Pursuing Passion

In addition to her career journey, Vivian is embarking on new projects that reflect her passion for faith, wellness, and personal growth. From launching her podcast, "Juggling Life Finding Balance," to writing devotionals for YouVersion, Vivian is using her gifts and experiences to inspire others on their journey towards balance and fulfillment. Through her transparency, vulnerability, and unwavering faith, Vivian serves as a beacon of hope and encouragement for those striving to find harmony in their own lives.

A Journey of Transformation and Renewal

As Vivian's story illustrates, the journey towards balance is not always easy, but it is a journey worth taking. By confronting our inner struggles, embracing vulnerability, and surrendering to a higher purpose, we can find the strength and resilience to navigate life's challenges with grace and courage. Whether it's through prayer, self-reflection, or seeking support from others, each step we take toward balance brings us closer to living a life of purpose, fulfillment, and joy.

Are you ready to find balance in your life?

As a Life Breakthrough Coach, I can help you find balance in your own life. Schedule a free discovery call with me to see if we would be a good fit to work together. This 30-minute Zoom call is completely free.